Same time last year, our house was in a major frenzy. Guest had arrived and I was getting ready for the big day.
It was strange being the centre of attraction. Me as a back bencher was suddenly on the stage with all eyes on me. But then it went rather smoothly.
And now, Its been exactly a year since Amu and I have been married.
Wife has been asking me “How does it feel?”
The truth is, I still don’t know. The happiness feeling is there but how does one have to feel after that?
Completeness! Maybe! Probably! Certainly!
I wonder how I lived before her. I was not unhappy before her. I took life as it came and more or less it was a contended life even though it lacked that special someone besides me.
I think people who are never happy without certain someone or something are rarely happy after the someone or something in their life.
And now a year later, does it really needs to be analysed on how it all went?
I would say no!
Marriage has brought big changes, in me and in my life! I think I have become more responsible. I have become more rooted. Marriage is about being responsible, taking things as they come and adjusting to the other person’s needs. Its about taking a step toward each other instead of expecting the other person to walk the distance.
Seems like I have become more preachy too.
So the last year as the question was asked has been really good that it scares me. I have been happy and with Amu at my side more happier.
We both wondered how the first year would be and its finally here. There is no celebration and nothing special. We usher the anniversary quietly.
Celebration are not needed as the whole year has been one big celebration.
Hoping for the best and preparing for the worst!
Wishing you a very happy anniversary Amu!!!!